I’ve never had an enemy. There have been people I didn’t get along with, but never someone with whom i shared a mutual dislike. You know, the kind of relationship where you are constantly trying to sabotage or undermine the other person. A relationship where the misery of the other person brings you happiness.
I tend to think that men have fewer of these types of relationships and women have many over the course of their lives. At least a few of my female friends have explained as much. Maybe it is because men handle conflict physically, while women handle it emotionally.
Any of you ever have an enemy or feud that lasted a number of years?